INDEPENDENT OR UNABLE TO DEPEND???

A feminist- A person whose beliefs and behavior are based on feminism.

Feminism- 1. Belief in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes.
2. The movement organized around this belief.

Now....People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute- I AM NOT!

masista wenzangu, "Independent woman" should not mean that we should deal with everything ourselves, and Fcuk all men- excuse my french- It should mean we are able to fend for ourselves, be self sufficient- because at the end of day, some of us are making it sound like we are unable to depend on a man! which is not true- angalaia even the most feminists of feminists- infront of the world, they give us this whole independent get up- but believe you..me, when she all alone in that 4 wall room, best believe she on a bootay call- or better yet- juu ya kifua...kila shetani na mbuyu wake..

Jill Scott could not have sang it better...

The Fact Is (I Need You)"

I can pay my own light bill baby
Pump my own gas in my own car
I can buy my own shoe collection
I've been blessed thus far
I can kill the spider above my bed
Although it's hard because I'm scared
I can even stain and polyurethane
But some things just don't change
I need you yeah
Sometimes so hard to say oh
I need you
Some things remain
I could buy my own groceries baby
Get my hair tight, my nails right
I can floss my own bling bling
Write the words to the songs I sing
I can even raise the child we'll make
Make sure he's loved and knows what God gave us
I can teach him how to walk and stand
But he needs you to help him be a man
We need you
So hard to say
We need you
Some things don't change
I could be congresswoman
Or a garbage woman or
Police officer, or a carpenter
I could be a doctor and a lawyer and a mother and a good girl
God what you've done to me
Kind of lover I could be
I could be a computer analyst, the Queen with the nappy hair raising her fist
Or I could be much more and a myriad of this
Hot as the summer, sweet as the first kiss
And even though I can do all these things
I need you
And even though I can do all these things
We need you
We need you
We need you
And even though I can do all these things by my damn self
I need you
I do, I do, I do, I do
And even though I can do all these things
I need you
We need you
We do
We need you yeah
We need you